Variegatus Personality Type, MBTI

Variegatus personality type is ESFP, the fun and generous “southern California” type. When you find yourself in an “argument” with another personality, it’s usually not about the issues, it’s about the person. The other person is so “wrong”, that you feel justified in saying, “You’re wrong!” even if you don’t mean to be rude. You sometimes get into verbal fights about things that aren’t even important, and usually the other person is being just as rude. That’s because you are both arguing about your own ideas. The word “arguments” can be used in a negative way, but it doesn’t have to be. The word “argument” is used to describe a real world thing, like when two people are fighting. There is nothing wrong with arguing. It’s a normal part of life, and sometimes there are times where you both need someone to help you think things through. Here are some tips on how to stay calm in an argument: