Leila Personality Type, MBTI

Leila personality type is ESTP, but I am an ENFP, and my husband is an ENTJ. We are both very intense, and we know that we don't need to be perfect, so we don't ask for perfection from people. I'm not sure where I got this word "perfectionist" from, but I have learned that perfectionism is not a good trait to have, especially in relationships. It is okay to be passionate and intense, and it isn't a bad thing, but I realized that if I go on the verge of anger or frustration in a relationship, I am likely to inflict it on someone else. Also, I have learned that when I am upset, I am prone to judging and not seeing the other person's point of view. But I have also learned that if I am calm and patient, that I can let the other person understand how I feel, and it can make me feel better because I know that my feelings are justified.