What is the personality type of Ongo? Which MBTI personality type best fits? Personality type for Ongo from Jelly Jamm and what is the personality traits.
Ongo personality type is INFP, and we both think we compare pretty closely to each other, and we both agree that we would be very compatible as friends. I would love to see her as my girlfriend, but I don't think she is as interested as I am as a relationship, as she has mentioned before.
I really like her as a friend, and I think we could find common ground and talk about lots of things, and that would be awesome. But I know she's really busy and doesn't have time for a relationship. I think she's also afraid of getting hurt and losing something important and precious, which is understandable.
I don't know what to do. I feel like telling her how I feel would be selfish and immature and selfishly romanticizing a friendship that's been going on for a few months now. Yet I also feel like it would be pretty devastating to lose her as a friend if she never gets serious with me.
How do I decide? What should I do? Should I go for it? If I do go for it, should I tell her how I feel or wait until she's ready?