Unwanted Spouse Personality Type, MBTI

Unwanted Spouse personality type is ISFJ, with an ESFP personality type as their second most common type. This ISFJ wants to be the domestic queen, but doesn’t know how to do it. They want to take care of their partner, but also want to spend time with their friends and family. They want to be able to express themselves, but also want to take care of others. They want to be respected by others, but don’t want to be a doormat. They want to be loved by their partners, but don’t want to be controlled, or told what to do. They want to be in charge of their careers, but are also people pleasers. This ISFJ wants to be the person that everyone turns to when they need support, but they feel like they always just end up being the one who everyone goes to for advice, or assistance.