Elam Personality Type, MBTI

Elam personality type is INFP, and I've always hated that type. I had a hard time relating to the idealist who's so sensitive and empathic and kind and empathic, who has a hard time defending themselves because they're so open and accepting. I thought they were the most annoying people in the world. And then I started reading Elam's criticism of that type, and boy did it change my mind. He not only has a lot of insights that I've developed on my own, but he also goes into the theory behind them, and discusses how we can apply that to our own lives.